Tuesday, May 14, 2013

An Easy A

It's a phrase you've heard before right? I guess we've all head it at some point in time. A's are typically hard to come by and the result of lots and lots of hard work. The "Easy A" that I speak of today however isn't so much academic as it is relational.

Most of us are looking for the same things in life as we wander and pass through. It's a connection of the human kind that we long for, even those who claim to not like people. In this ever present search we look for that special someone be it a girlfriend/boyfriend possibly leading to marriage or maybe a simple companion that offers us friendship. Whichever the case the same boundaries should apply. Before the looking process begins we must first be compelled to look within as ask this most basic question of ourselves. Am I looking for "A" person in my life or "The" person for my life?

In my experience the "A" person is much easier to find, take up with, and even run away with because the standard is much lower, thus causing there to be very little resistance. The greater and thereby more rewarding effort is finding "The" person, nope it's no the easiest way and it shouldn't be either. It is however the most reliable and best for you. The easier and quicker you get into a relationship the quicker you will get out of it. The right person and the right relationship takes time to develop and always begins with you being the right person first, or rather being the type of person that you yourself are looking to find.

Stop looking for simply "A" person, I promise you they're a dime a dozen with not a nickle's difference between the lot. Focus first on becoming the person God would have you to be, and then wait for "The" one, not just an Easy A.

As I see it through my lens.

pk